Too Big Too Small Same Advice

One of the things that I most proud of lately is that I coach men on Niteflirt amongst all the porn fantasy girls offering coaching sessions on sexuality not phone sex. Men who call on this website are usually looking to masturbate and get off on some quick fantasy and those calls can last for about 3-10 minutes,but a lot my coaching calls have lasted for 60 minutes talking to seekers about various things around their sex lives. I tell them that I don't humiliate or run fantasy in my profile, which if they don't read, they will waste their $2.95 per minute and be disappointed that I'm not any kind of fantasy that will help them cum as fast as possible. Men with shame around their penis have the same problem, they aren't able to bond with the women that they desire. A man with a large penis is actually given much of the same advice as the man with the small penis. The right woman who can see you for who you are not what your body parts are is going to love you for how you make love from your heart and soul not just your cock. I"m going to emphasize that I say THE RIGHT WOMAN which is someone who is also matching you as a genuine soul after you've dealt with your insecurity issues. The process of other's acceptance of our bodies happens AFTER we first accept our own bodies. And it's great that I have the guy with the penis that is too big because I can tell the guy with the "tiny" penis the same thing. Most of what is done in phone sex with penis size is superficial worship or humiliation. And then, I suspect, and maybe this might even be true of the guy with the penis that is too large there is a lot of self fulfilling fantasy where the seeker isn't telling the truth of their issue and is just getting fake advice from their projected self. This has happened to me a lot but I can't really ever be sure, i just have my suspicions. Too Big doesn't do video calls with me, but he talks about being as big as the Black porn star Mandingo. I don't necessarily like big dick, I tell him. The physical is not what drives the best sex, it is part of it but not all of it. It's not the sustainable part. I recall hating my escort client with the Big Black Dick. He liked to push me into places of pain and resistance, he took pleasure out of my agony and after a while, I gave up on trying to endure. I couldn't even fake it. So size doesn't always mean anything to me. This is often a myth that we are fed through media and porn star worship. So many men are worshipping porn penis instead of their own, but its also conditioned into a lot of women in society. Size matters, size jokes, sitcom punchlines all about wanting big dick but I've been with too many big dicks that did nothing, absolutely nothing for me. I'm going to have to say that shape matters more than size and that there are certainly some keys that fit my keyhole like magic. Again, flashing back to my escort days where I would just have the most physical of the physical encounters but it would fall short of the person caring about me as a person so I couldn't keep going back after a while. Good sex is not sustainable without good and genuine connection based in love and acceptance. I recently saw the Last Jedi, so I had Star Wars fresh on the mind when I hadn't seen a SW movie in decades and obviously wasn't a real fan. But the metaphor of the light saber was so perfect for me to coach LITTLE into an energetically moving call that had him feeling like he could penetrate me all the way up to the top of my head and fill me with his light sword was so easily drawn into our minds and we were just vibing off of each other's ENERGY. I explained energy cock to him, that energy cock was infinite and longer than even Mandingo. I didn't need a genetic penis, I had an energy cock and I could penetrate so a man could feel, and I could feel it if you put your mouth around a strap on attached to my energy cock. It was any size I wanted it to be and that was usually larger than the entire room. I activated it. I used the force. It was real. Try me!

NITEFLIRT DOWN for 2 weeks

So when it first went down for revision for a few days, Niteflirt was steadily tweeting that it would be up any day now...so patiently all the horny callers and all the hard working flirts waited for the service to come back up any day as promised. Now it has been almost 2 weeks since the service has failed to provide much need income and much needed hot fantasies for their 1000s of customers across the nation and world!

When I log in, it doesn't even have a placeholder but only says 404 not found, which is an unsettling thing for faithfuls of the site to see. Well, so far there is no word that it is coming back up by any specified time, and even if it were promised, we who have been waiting now for what seems like ever are skeptical until we see it.

The new site promises enhanced features like the ability to buy custom videos from the site instead of using a 3rd party like clips4sale to direct buyers and will have a way for people to do paid chat sessions, which is actually a rarity in the webcam world, because most of these webcam servers draw customers in with a FREE chat window. From a working girl's perspective, the FREE chat is the most annoying thing...it's like being in a peepshow with Beavis and Butthead most of the time. Another webcam service that i tried to work for was like that and I only lasted 4 hours.

Niteflirt puts the power back into the provider and seems to draw very dedicated customers and helps thousands of people realize their sexuality by profitting off it legally and safely in ways that they had probably never had the opportunity to do before. You can browse couples listings and see this young 20 year old hick couple in Alabama or somewhere who just decided it would be great to just have people pay to watch them screw since they were unemployed and doing it anyway just to pass the time of being so broke..and now people are calling to ask them to do it! Hallelujiah!

I am still available on yahoo and skype and you can do a webcam session with me by paypalling me directly...which works out better for me.

Me and another niteflirt dominatrix just WISH that we could get enough traffic on our sites so that we could sustain without the help of a service to get us calls, but i guess that is the challenge for all of the people trying to sell something on the web market...

email me for information on how to set up a cam or phone flirt session if you are interested in that...and as always, I am also availble for "real time" in person sessions for escorting, stripping, BDSM...

Happy Memorial Day..I forgot to post my favorite pic

I just got my nite flirt fantasy line set up...but it is "pending approval." You can call me right now for $1.99/minute by clicking the link on the right. And we can talk dirty WITHOUT their approval! I am sooo much naughtier if you call me through niteflirt, I promise. Because of all those stupid prostitution laws that we have to always be afraid of as consensual adults, I'm not allowed to talk about ANYTHING sexual when you call to book an escort appointment because we are both supposed to pretend that escorts don't have sex. So it's an amazing departure from what we can talk about in escort land. There are no limits in phone fantasy land...and I stay up late!

So if you're in need of a little departure from your family bbq, or your wife's family's bbq..